金星天蝎和金星处女的星座配对

How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Virgo: Trust doesn't come extremely easy to either you or your partner, but put you together, and the atmosphere feels quite safe. You are passionate and intense—perhaps even provocative at times. If you sense passion and commitment is missing or waning, you may go to any means (often subtle) to keep the relationship from becoming boring. This is because you can be somewhat addicted to emotional excitement. Your partner is usually receptive to a partner's wishes and needs, and he or she tends to bend their ways accordingly. Your lover works hard at making relationships work—something that you sense and appreciate. Neither of you is frivolous about committed relationships, and if you and your partner are committed to each other, this pairing can be hard to break. This pairing combines Venusian Earth (your partner) and Water (you). When you understand each other's different styles of loving, the combination can be very fertile. Problems generally arise between the differences in focus. Both of you are committed to making your relationship last, but your partner values practical expressions of commitment, while you value emotional ones. Subtle control issues may be the source of problems over time. If you sense any emotional distance on your lover's part, you may use various means to regain some sense of control. Generally, your partner only appears "distant" because he or she is busy tending to the cogs in the machine of your relationship. Your lover may find your silences frustrating, because he or she is always willing to talk about the relationship and doesn't always understand why you resort to giving him or her the silent treatment! You can be skilled at knowing how to push your partner's buttons, however, and this may be one of the more potent ways you have discovered to get your partner's attention! As long as game-playing is kept to a minimum, this relationship has many strengths and much potential.