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Because your emotional natures and deeply ingrained attitudes are so similar, you understand one another very well, but you also share and reinforce one another's bad habits.
Both of you have a sober, realistic, and at times cynical or pessimistic attitude towards life. Work, concrete accomplishment, and material assets give you a sense of security, and you can easily become too immersed in work-related responsibilities, neglecting your home life and your own needs for relaxation, play, and sustaining close emotional ties with others. Both of you are ambitious and you are often hard on yourselves if you do not achieve enough.
Showing feelings of vulnerability, neediness, or sentimentality, even to those closest to you, does not come easily to you. You can seem emotionally distant and inaccessible to others. You express caring more by being faithful and constant and doing something concrete (like shouldering financial responsibilities) for the people you love.
Emotional caution, self-control, seriousness, and a tendency to expect and prepare for the worst are ingrained emotional habits of yours.
Both of you would benefit by learning to trust, to laugh (playfully, not cynically or ruefully), and to be kinder to yourselves.
